Thinking hard about the relationship between me and the theme of this research. How did I feel about this topic? In the thinking stage, I thought that the over-distance in interpersonal communication made me feel anxious and fearful, and made my heart unable to get peaceful and comfortable. For me, the degree of fear of this was no less than what I feared when I was a child. Therefore, I turned my anxiety, fear and struggle into the nightmare in my childhood, that was, the most fearful things - snakes, black cats, cactus.